Slice Of Life - Human Communication

This has nothing to do with gaming so if you are not interested in reading it please move on to other topics =).

I will try to make it as simple as it looks so that we can enjoy reading it. Today i saw yet another unnecessary argument happens and it sadden me allot by seeing how human communication broke down that easily. Human is such a weak creature, life is given and taken while you are still halfway finding the purpose of life.

Many of us are divided by strength and weaknesses, like it or not, nobody look at your strength they focus on your weaknesses. While you might not acknowledge your own weakness, others do. This is human.

How do you be a likable person to others? How to avoid others hating you? Do you ever think before why others hate me so much while others adores him/her so much? Your attitude and personality plays a major role in this. Do you listen more than talking, or do you talk more than listening? Do you understand others or do others understand you?

Frankly speaking, nobody is perfect especially when it comes to communication. To cut it short, all of us should understand our own weaknesses and turn it into our strength so that others will like us instead of hating us. Strength could be in terms of the ability for you to listen and understand others easily and tolerate them to the fullest. Weakness could be impatient, insecure, hot-tempered, rude, arrogant.... people hate your weaknesses, while you will defend yourself.

How do you be a likable person to others? Listen more to others and i mean it, listen to others feeling, deep inside everybody's heart is a fragile soul.

How do you avoid others hating you? Listen more to others and i mean it, listen to others feeling, deep inside everybody's heart is a fragile soul.

Two repeated sentence. Ask yourself now, are you more interested in the part of being likable or the part to avoid others hating you?

If you answer the 1st one, you are a person with few weaknesses if you answer the 2nd one, you are a person with many weaknesses.

Do you ever think before why others hate me so much while others adores him/her so much? Find your answer, it lies deep within your heart and soul.

Personal Comment : I went through human communication breakdown and I stand up again vowing to myself that 'Today, I will understand others. My priority in life is to make others happy before myself. I want others to love themselves, and be loved.' I am still learning...